That’s Amore: A Speech That Left Us Speechless

Japanese wedding receptions start with two speeches: A speech from either the bride or groom’s boss and then a toast from a friend or co-worker which officially starts the wedding reception.  Having a boss say a speech at your wedding is very indicative of Japanese “company culture.” Traditionally, your whole life revolves around your job and the company you work for. In Japan, more than asking “What do you do?” people ask “What company do you work for?”

We decided that Mr. G’s boss should say the boss’ speech since his company is more traditional than mine. Mr. G had been to about 5 weddings that year and his boss had done the boss’ speech at all of them. Mr.G. told me that he usually just congratulates the couple, asks the wife to be understanding of the long hours the husband may have to work, and then wishes them the best.

Mr. G’s boss came up to the podium and Mr. G and I sat there expecting a nice one minute speech. Oh, were we ever wrong. Mr. G’s boss started the speech  with congratulating us and then jumped into a five minute overview of Mr.G’s company’s earnings. Phrases like “this quarter we were up 35% ” and “in that month our sector filled orders of over 200 million yen.” I looked over at Mr. G with a subtle “What’s going on?!” look on my face. Mr. G shrugged. We heard more about how well Mr. G’s company was doing and then he ended it with the typical best wishes to the couple.  He bowed, left the podium, and everyone clapped. I looked over at our guests sitting at the tables nearest to us and many had a puzzled expressions on their faces.

31

Can you see the confused look on our faces? Photography by Teppei  Kawakami

Later on I asked Mr. G about the speech and it turns out that his boss was trying to impress Mr. G’s father, a former superior at the company where Mr. G works.  Mr.G’s father was once that man’s boss and I guess he wanted to let Mr. G’s father know how well things were going.

My family, who had the speech translated for them by my bilingual friend at the table, came up to me later and said “Only in Japan will you hear a speech about quarterly earnings at a wedding!” We all laughed. They speech may have fell flat, but it has left a very funny memory for me and my family.

Have you ever been to a wedding or had a wedding where  a speech just fell flat?

recap icon

Miss a recap?

We have our rehearsal dinner,.

We set up the venue,

We do our first look and family photos.

The sushi at cocktail hour was great.

We blatantly copy the internet. 

Advertisements

Leave a Reply

Fill in your details below or click an icon to log in:

WordPress.com Logo

You are commenting using your WordPress.com account. Log Out / Change )

Twitter picture

You are commenting using your Twitter account. Log Out / Change )

Facebook photo

You are commenting using your Facebook account. Log Out / Change )

Google+ photo

You are commenting using your Google+ account. Log Out / Change )

Connecting to %s